I Just Can't Get Her Out Of My Mind is a english song released in 2006. At the same time, be prepared for rejection or perceived rejection, as your mind might use it as an excuse to PMO.© 2006 K-tel FAQs for I Just Can't Get Her Out Of My Mind When was I Just Can't Get Her Out Of My Mind released? Know sooner, instead of building up that anticipation for nothing, and get disappointed. But, all I can say is don't wait to figure out if she's into you or not. Then she started talking about her family, her plans in life, her weekend trip, and she turned out to be a pretty cool person. Then, it turned out she didn't reject me at all. Then, immediately after, I assumed she already rejected me (traumatized from girl #1 experience), so I PMO'd that weekend. (so much for the superpowers)įor Girl #2, I just went and talked to her already. Then I went on for months PMOing, bitter, and angry. This just happened to me recently, and I tried it both ways:įor Girl #1, that long wait, and that anticipation for a 'reward' after the 90 days was so anti-climactic, I resorted to PMO after she rejected me. After the breakup, I went back into porn pretty hard. About two years in, she broke up with me (I don't think she ever knew about the porn - this was unrelated). It wasn't actual porn at first (so I told myself), but it developed into porn about a year and a half into the relationship. I probably made it a year before porn started creeping back into my life. The relationship was really helpful for me, since it provided me with great motivation to quit. Shortly after beginning my first serious attempt to quit, I started dating a girl. I'll share my experience, since I've (kind of) taken both approaches. However, if you have good reasons to quit and you feel fairly secure about who you are, I see no reason to wait. You need to have reasons to quit beyond a girlfriend otherwise, you're in danger of doing what I did. If you only want to date because you want to use that as motivation to quit, I would suggest going through your 90 days first. I don't really know you, so I guess I'm going to offer some conditional advice. So I guess here's the part where I stop rambling and start to say some words that resemble advice. I'm quitting because I like the me that doesn't look at porn a lot better than the me who does. During my current attempt, I'm quitting for me. So when she broke up with me, I no longer had any motivation to stay away from porn. This meant, in my first attempt to quit, I was only quitting for my girlfriend. I had been placing a lot of my sense of self-worth into my relationship status. I'm mostly glad because it gave me some time to really think about who I was. I didn't really have a choice in this, since my current prospects are pretty slim, but I'm glad I made it through my 90 PMO-free days without dating. I decided to wait until I hit my 90 day mark before I would start thinking about dating.

My second serious attempt to quit porn is the attempt that I'm currently on.

Click to expand.I'll share my experience, since I've (kind of) taken both approaches.

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